Monday, June 18, 2007

So, How's that Online-Dating thing goin'?



I wait too passively. It's a fairly simple concept to occupy one's self with other stuff while waiting for what you can't do any more to effect.

I'm finally getting better at that.

Sun rising hotly
Sweat beads on shoulders and brow
Time wasting away

9 comments:

angry ballerina said...

It's not time wasting away.

MichaelBains said...

Yeah, ain't my waistline either, but patience, patience...

Lackin' that has got me to this point in the first place by yankin' me into two screw-ball, doomed-to-failure marriages.

Thinkin' I need a miracle. Guessin' I'm gonna have to get better at that patience thingy....

angry ballerina said...

Hrmmm....The thing about marriage is the concept use to be "till death do us part" now it's kinda like "till I find someone better than you do we part". Don't beat yourself up over it, everything happens for a reason.

MichaelBains said...

I got married, both times, for "reason" & love.

Next time it'll be for lust, everlasting*. I've learned that much about myself. Love w/o lust is doomed to platonic pusillanimity.


* at least that'll last 'til we're both too old to care 'bout such stuff. {-;

Nvisiblewmn said...

One thing I learned the hard way, AB, is that when you start fantasizing about the death, it's past time to part.

Been there, done that, MichaelBains.

MichaelBains said...

Been there, too, NVW, With the first wife and, yeah, when you're thinking you'd rather die than stay in it, it is Way past time to go.

angry ballerina said...

nvisible, true that darlin

angry ballerina said...

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MichaelBains said...

Hmmm...

In that case...